Coconut Macaroons

These coconut macaroons are easy and delicious. I was glad to find this recipe since I love coconut macaroons and so does my husband. I have modified it slightly to make it more coconut-y. For those of you who are coconut lovers, you may also like my recipes for coconut cake and coconut pecan pie.

2/3 cup all-purpose flour

5-1/2 cups sweetened flaked coconut

1/4 teaspoon salt

1 (14 oz) can sweetened condensed milk

2 teaspoons coconut extract

1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract 

In a large bowl, mix the coconut, flour, and salt.

In a smaller bowl, mix the sweetened condensed milk (not evaporated milk), vanilla, and coconut extract. Pour the condensed milk mixture into the larger bowl with the coconut and mix well. 

Cover a cookie sheet with aluminum foil or parchment paper. Drop golf ball-sized portions of dough on the cookie sheet (or use an ice cream scoop). The dough will be very sticky so grease the spoons or ice cream scoop beforehand to help. 

Bake at 350^○F for 15-20 minutes or until the cookies are toasty brown on the outside.

These macaroons are best served warm. You can heat them up for a few seconds in the microwave and they get soft and chewy in the middle. Enjoy!

Biblical Dating: Pure

Purity is the second of the Characteristics of Biblical Dating. The first characteristic we looked at was Christ-centered, and it was first for a reason. If your dating relationship is not Christ-centered, it most likely will not be pure. You need the power of God in your relationship in order to stay pure.

But what does it mean to have a pure dating relationship? How pure should it be? How does one achieve purity? All of these are necessary questions to ask and to answer if a dating relationship is to be pure.

If you look up purity in the dictionary, you get two definitions:

1.      Freedom from adulteration or contamination

2.      Freedom from immorality, especially of a sexual nature

The second definition is perhaps most useful in this context. Sexual immorality is rampant in our culture. However, we as Christians, are called to be holy and pure. Since God has reserved sexual intimacy for marriage, we are called to refrain from it until after the wedding (and then engage in it only with our spouse). We’ve all heard that.

For example, I Thessalonians 4:3-7 says: “For it is God's will that you be sanctified: You must abstain from sexual immorality; each of you must know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not with passion and lust like the gentiles who do not know God; and you must never take advantage of or exploit a brother in this regard. For the Lord is an avenger in all these things, just as we already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to impurity but to holiness.” (ISV)

The first definition of purity is also helpful, however. Since the opposite of purity is contamination, we should realize that sexual immorality is a contaminant. It contaminates not only our soul and conscience, but our relationships as well. God’s design for sex in marriage is so beautiful and amazing, but sexual immorality taints that. God’s law against sexual immorality is for our benefit, not to prevent us from having fun. Once we realize that, we are in a better position to remain pure.

So, what things should be avoided before marriage? Obviously, intercourse is wrong before marriage, but many other behaviors are also sexual in nature and should be reserved for marriage. Sexual intimacy is a complex phenomenon with many triggers and facets. It would impossible to provide a complete list of things to avoid. And, of course, if I were to try to make a list, someone would inevitably think of something that wasn’t on the list and think it must be okay to go ahead. The idea isn’t to have a list of wrong behaviors, but to strive always to be as pure as possible. In general, if it gets your motor running, avoid it. Save all sexual intimacy for marriage.

Most of us can identify behaviors that should be avoided before marriage. We usually know what is right and wrong. The tricky part is actually living out those convictions. It’s hard to maintain sexual purity, especially when you’re in love and want each other so bad. So how does one live out purity? Here are some practical solutions to help you maintain purity in your relationships.

·       Understand God’s plan for sexual intimacy in marriage. It’s a lot easier to wait for marriage when you know what you’re looking forward to and when you realize that saving intimacy for marriage will make it so much better.

·       Pray for purity. Pray for wisdom, that you will be able to recognize temptation and avoid poor choices. Pray for the strength to say no to sin. The good thing about praying for purity is that you already know God wants it for you. All you have to do is ask Him for what He already wants to grant.

·       Clearly define your physical boundaries before entering any dating relationship. Again, you can’t make a complete list, but you can decide that you will not do certain things. If you enter a relationship with just a fuzzy idea that you don’t want to have intercourse before marriage, you are in a dangerous position. Most likely, you will engage in sexual behaviors and then not be able to stop yourself from going all the way. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. So put some guidelines in place long before the heat of the moment leads you to do something that will taint your relationship and your life with sin.

·       Define physical boundaries with your boyfriend or girlfriend at the beginning of a relationship. Very early in the relationship you should come to an agreement that you will remain sexually pure until marriage. If the other person doesn’t agree that sexual purity is important, they probably don’t have the Christian character that you are looking for, so save yourself the trouble of a dead end relationship and find someone else.

·       Don’t just agree to remain pure, however. Plan your dates to ensure purity. One of the most important things you can do on this front is to have accountability (more on that in future posts). If you aren’t accountable to anyone, if no one is checking up on you, you probably will go farther than you planned to. You also need to plan not to have an opportunity to sin. For example, don’t be alone together in an empty house or dorm room. Alone together will be great on your honeymoon. Wait for that time.

·       Be aware of your body’s response to sexual behaviors. If you are doing something (even if it seemed harmless) and you find yourself being turned on and wanting to go farther, stop immediately. Be willing to avoid even things you thought were fine if you find that they lead to temptation.

·       If you do mess up, repent and set stricter guidelines to ensure you don’t do it again. Don’t simply give in and keep doing what you were doing. It’s easy to think, when you’ve crossed a line you said you wouldn’t, that you might as well just keep on. You haven’t “saved” that for marriage so you might as well indulge. That is a dangerous line of thinking. It is never okay to sin. If you have sinned, confess it, forsake it, and plan not to allow opportunity for it to happen again. 

Are there any other suggestions or tips for keeping a dating relationship pure? Have you found any handy ways to prevent temptation or to remove yourself from a compromising situation? Do you know of any additional pitfalls to avoid? Share them here so that others can benefit.

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Easiest Spaghetti and Meatballs Dinner

This is probably the easiest recipe for spaghetti and meatballs that I’ve ever seen. Meatballs can be complicated. I came up with this recipe one afternoon while trying to figure out what to make for dinner in a hurry. I had always just browned some ground beef to put in spaghetti sauce, but this recipe is almost as easy as that and it tastes better. Add some mozarella-topped Italian bread (see below) and a salad and it makes a tasty Italian meal in just 30-35 minutes.

Meatballs:

1 pound ground beef

2 eggs

1-1/2 to 2 cups Italian seasoned bread crumbs

Italian seasoning (optional)

Garlic powder (optional)

Mix ground beef, egg, and bread crumbs together to form a fairly stiff dough. Add seasonings to taste and mix well. Roll into walnut sized balls. Heat a small amount of olive oil in a skillet on medium heat and add meatballs. Cook the meatballs, turning occasionally, until well browned on all sides.

Drain the meatballs and add them to your spaghetti sauce (I use Ragu meat-flavored sauce because it is less acidic than many spaghetti sauces) and heat through. Avoid heating for too long or the meatballs will absorb much of the liquid in the sauce and make it too thick.

Meanwhile, boil the spaghetti according to package directions. (We prefer whole wheat thin spaghetti.)

While the spaghetti is boiling and the sauce is heating, prepare the bread. Cut slices of Italian (or French) bread about 1 inch thick and lay them on a cookie sheet or baking tray (I put mine on a toaster tray). Slather them with garlic butter and sprinkle lightly with Italian seasoning.

Top the bread with mozzarella cheese.

Bake at 400^○F for about 10 minutes or until the cheese is melted and turns toasty brown on top. You may want to turn on the broiler for the last couple minutes. 

Top spaghetti with meatballs and sauce and sprinkle with parmesan cheese, if desired. Serve with the mozzarella-topped bread and a nice salad and you have a great Italian meal!

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Biblical Dating: Christ-Centered

Let’s talk about the first of those Characteristics of a Biblical Dating Relationship I mentioned the other day.

A Biblical dating relationship must be Christ-centered above all else. As Christians, everything we do and say should be Christ-centered. We all hear that all the time. And, of course, we know that a dating relationship is no exception. But what does it mean to make Christ the center of your relationship in a practical, everyday way?

First of all, it means that a Christian should never date a non-Christian. You can’t possibly have a Christ-centered relationship unless you are both in Christ. There’s also the Biblical mandate: “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?” (II Cor. 6:14) The Bible clearly states that we should not be “yoked together” with someone who is not a believer. A yoke is a wooden device used to harness two beasts of burden (usually oxen or mules) together so that they would use their combined strength to do a task such as pulling a plow or a wagon. Usually, these two animals formed a permanent team and would always be yoked together rather than to any other animal. Any farmer worth his salt knew that the two animals that were yoked together had to be equal in strength. Otherwise, the stronger one would be hindered and exhausted by doing most of the work (and pulling the other animal around) and the weaker one would be hurt by being pulled along faster than he could keep up. Also, the two animals had to pull in the same direction or they would exhaust and possibly injure each other. Eventually, both animals would suffer if they were unequally yoked. In the same way, Paul says in II Corinthians that believers should not attempt to form permanent relationships with someone who is not a good match spiritually. Christians and non-Christians are going in opposite directions in life. They cannot make a good team, no matter how many other things they may have in common.

Just because two people are Christians, however, does not mean that their relationship is Christ-centered. A truly Christ-centered relationship will only occur when both people put Christ first in their lives and in their relationship. That means that they must love God more than they love each other. It means that they must want God’s will more than they want to be together. It means that they will do what is right, even when it is hard. It also means that they will see the other person as a priceless son or daughter of God and treat each other accordingly.

As for some practical suggestions on how to achieve a Christ-centered dating relationship, here are just a few:

·         Pray for the person you will someday marry, that God will keep them strong in Him.

·         Pray for your current relationship, that it may be pure and honoring to God and that God will give both of you wisdom as you proceed.

·         Keep your relationship sexually pure and above reproach (more on that in the next post).

·         Share your testimonies with each other and talk about your relationship with God. Share what God has been showing you recently or ways He has provided for you in the past. In other words, make your relationship with Christ an integral part of your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

·         Talk about spiritual issues and be sure that both of you agree on major doctrines.

·         Engage in Christian ministry together. Attend church together. Teach Sunday School together or help out in a bus ministry or other program.

·         Once the relationship is definitely headed toward marriage, pray together for your relationship as well as for other things in your lives. (Be careful of this early on because it can build too much intimacy too soon.)

·         Seek mentoring from a godly married couple you both know.

Are there any other things you can think of that will help in building a Christ-centered dating relationship? How have you tried to keep your focus on God during a dating relationship? Are these suggestions and explanations helpful?

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Coconut Pecan Pie

My husband and I like pecan pie (though he likes it more than I do) and we both love coconut so when I came across this recipe online, I printed it out. It sat in my recipe collection for months and the other day when I was looking for something different to make for dessert, I decided to make this pie. It was great! The filling is a little less sweet and rich than a regular pecan pie and more buttery. The coconut adds a whole new flavor and makes this pie very unique.

3 eggs

1 cup sugar
1/2 cup light corn syrup
3 tablespoons butter, melted
1 tablespoon vanilla
Pinch of salt
1-1/2 cups pecan halves
1-1/2 cups sweetened, flaked coconut
1 9-inch pie crust, unbaked

In a mixing bowl, beat the eggs and then stir in the sugar, corn syrup, butter, vanilla, and salt until smooth.

Stir in the pecans and coconut.

Pour into pie crust. Cover loosely with a dome of aluminum foil. Bake at 350^○F for 35 minutes. Remove the foil dome. Bake for an additional 15-20 minutes or until knife inserted in the center comes out clean. Cool before cutting.

Note: If you really like coconut, you can add an extra 1/2 cup of flaked coconut. However, you’ll need a deep dish pie crust if you do (or it will overflow).


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